Sheep
(Isa 40:11) He shall feed his flock like a shepherd: he shall gather the
lambs with his arm, and carry them in his bosom, and shall gently lead those
that are with young.
Over and over in God's Word, we are described as being like sheep. And
Jesus is described as being our Shepherd. He gets us to go where He wants us
to go not by pushing, it says He gently leads. Remember the 23rd Psalm
- "He LEADETH me beside the still waters."
Have you ever tried to be a shepherd (leader)? Responsible for sheep who
need to go in a certain direction, and you're trying to get them to go
there? The sheep may be your own children, or family, or people who work
with you, or just some folks you're trying to motivate to go a certain way.
If you're trying to do any shepherding, take a lesson from the Great
Shepherd and many other shepherds, gently lead them. Even though you
sometimes feel like really pushing them. Leading works so much better than
pushing.
If you're trying to push your "sheep", you tend to be impatient
with them, in fact that’s why we often start pushing because there’s no
response. When you are leading, you'll be willing to take the time for them
to get it right. When you're pushing, you will probably focus a lot on what
they're doing wrong.
If you're leading, you are dwelling on the things they're doing right and
encouraging them to work on the rest. When you're behind the sheep trying
to forcibly direct them, you have a tendency to make moving the most
important. When you're in front of the sheep leading them, you will convey
that the sheep are most important.
Are you behind those sheep, nagging, criticizing, and pushing? They will
probably just run away. Or are you leading the sheep, giving correction
gently and privately, praising, encouraging, and enabling?
Now, sheep sometimes wander off and they require some strong bringing
back with a staff. But most of the time, all of us sheep follow gentle,
consistent leadership best. We don't like to be pushed. We do like to be
led. The destination the shepherd wants the sheep to go is the same, whether
he's up front leading or behind pushing. What's different is how the sheep
respond. If you have a sheep that isn't going where you're trying to take
him or her, consider if part of the problem is the shepherd. Maybe it's time
for a little less of that hard pushing from behind, and maybe it's time for
a little more of that gentle leading from out in front.
Trying to be like Jesus,
Pastor Rick
Wheeler
You can
email Pastor Rick Wheeler with any questions you may have
regarding this letter.
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